Many people I meet have read my columns and are impressed by my
clients' success stories but aren't sure if personal wellness
coaching would work for them. For some, the things they prefer
to eat may be different from those mentioned in the stories or
it may be harder for them to carve out time for exercise. What
they may not see is that almost everyone can find a strategy
that fits their lifestyle if they make it a priority. In this
column, I show how personal wellness coaching has helped three
of my clients set and meet their goals.Working through barriers
One of the advantages of personal wellness coaching is that it
provides you with help in establishing realistic health and
fitness goals that fit your lifestyle. It also provides for you
a base of support and strategies for working through any
barriers in reaching them, such as time constraints, individual
food preferences, medical issues and other challenges. A great
new diet that worked for a co-worker or neighbor won't
necessarily work for you. If it doesn't address your health
concerns, including the foods you like, and work with your
lifestyle challenges, you may be setting yourself up for
failure. Personal wellness coaching takes an individualized
approach, greatly increasing your chances of success.
Mark came to see me about three years ago with a desire to get
back into distance running. He was 38 years old, and his long-
term goal was to complete a 50-mile trail run by the time he
reached his 40th birthday. We've been working together for the
past several years to help him reach that goal. Here is what he
has to say about the benefits of personal wellness coaching:
"My goal when seeking personal wellness coaching was to get
back into condition. I had run track in junior high, high
school & college so I knew the feeling of being physically fit.
Furthermore, I had done a couple of marathons and truly enjoyed
the personal accomplishment of achieving my goals. However, the
increased demands of work, family and other stresses left
little time to train (or evaluate my eating habits). I was
looking to achieve some effective changes that would truly
improve my health and help me to incorporate a training program
that worked with my schedule.
I have been very successful in achieving my goals. I have been
able to integrate sound, healthy eating habits with realistic
training goals.....all the while continuing my family and work
commitments. Now I look at a year in terms of my
training/racing months and then my off-season months. My
fitness goals have also gone beyond the marathon that I did
about 14 years ago.....as a matter of fact, I did a 50K trail
race in Oregon last year. And will do it again! My enthusiasm
and energy is great and my goals just keep growing.
Probably the best change has been my eating. I am much more
aware of eating a balance of foods (i.e. starches, veggies,
fruit, etc). and it has become very natural for me as well as
the rest of my family. Our family eats a much better balanced
menu for all meals. My wife is getting into the holistic
approach of eating and exercising in a realistic sense.
Realistic meaning that it is a program that is integrated into
her regular schedule. Realistic changes that anyone can be
successful at.
There are 2 things that Heather has emphasized time and time
again:
1) Any health/fitness goal needs to be realistic given your
regular routine (to be long term successful).
2) Eating healthy 8 days out of 10 will reduce falling off the
wagon and guilty cycles that generally turn into a downward
spiral.
How many times has anyone started a program (fitness or
nutrition) only to fall off of it a few weeks or months later?
That was me a few years ago. It was a vicious, frustrating
cycle that has finally been beaten. Lastly, I like the
accountability with Heather (my coach). There are often things
she can see in my program that I may miss in my day to day
schedule."
Mark Burke, 40 year-old runner
Transitioning through lifestyle changes
Another benefit of personal wellness coaching is the ability to
adapt your program to fit your changing lifestyle needs. I have
a number of clients who I've worked with over a period of
several years. We've developed strategies to help them maintain
their health and fitness programs during periods of transition
in their life. Some of them were taking on new fitness goals,
others have experienced medical challenges, health issues, or
just changes in their personal or professional lives. In all of
these cases, we were able to adapt their nutrition and fitness
plans to fit their new lifestyle, allowing them to continue on
the path towards their health and performance goals.
Cydly was an avid runner who experienced weight gain as a
result of decreased activity from a running injury. We worked
together to develop both an eating plan and exercise program to
help her reach her weight loss goals. Towards the end of the
year she experienced a significant change in her health status,
which required some adaptations to her program. Here is her
story:
"Originally, I was trying to lose weight that I'd gained
after getting plantar fasciitis. I was not as diligent about
engaging in other types of cross-training activities as I
should have been, and was about 10 pounds over my optimal
weight. I knew that I needed to eat less, but I wanted a
nutritional "tune-up" on what to eat when, and how much would
be appropriate given my level of physical activity. I was able
to lose some weight and keep my energy level up. I also felt
better after making the eating changes suggested.
However, I got pregnant about six months ago and things
changed. My goals went from weight loss to sensible weight gain
and ensuring that my pregnancy nutrition needs are being met.
I'm happy to report that so far I've felt great (albeit
larger)!)
Although I already was a healthy eater prior to starting
wellness coaching, it has really helped me to focus on eating
smarter, and making sure that my "machine" is properly fueled
for whatever activities I've got going on."
Cydly Smith, 40 year old runner
Staying Motivated
Some of my clients come in thinking they can make enough
lifestyle changes to accomplish their goals in one or two
visits. What they often find is that working on long-term
health and fitness goals can be challenging. Energy and
enthusiasm can wane after a period of weeks or months, often
before long-term goals have been reached. Working with a
personal wellness coach can help to keep your program effective
and refocus your efforts when new lifestyle challenges occur.
Many of my clients are working on goals that require an
extended period of lifestyle change. Ongoing wellness coaching
can provide the support and accountability needed to help you
work though the difficult times, and to stay on track until you
reach your ultimate health or fitness goals.
Miriam was a competitive distance runner who experienced some
significant injuries during her past two running seasons. She
was concerned that her eating habits were connected to her
recurring injury problems. We worked together to develop a more
balanced eating plan and training program that would promote
recovery and fuel her body for her distance running goals. This
is how she describes the benefits of long-term personal
wellness coaching:
"I had gotten injured in my two preceding marathons, so I
wanted to successfully complete a marathon without injury. I
had had two stress fractures in a year. My goal was first to
stay injury free, specifically fracture-free. I also knew that
I had nutritional issues that were likely linked to my injury
problems. I had wanted to reduce my body fat, but as I learned
about my eating issues and began to recognize my problems, I
became more focused on eating nutritiously and eating the
quantities that my body needed. I learned to accept that my
body would find a balance between muscle and fat that was
appropriate for me.
I have not been injured in the past year and a half. I ran the
Portland marathon in October and finished without injury. My
body fat has been coming down slowly and I have increased my
lean body mass. I feel much better than I did when I was
depriving myself of food. I feel I have been successful. It has
gotten easier and easier to eat plenty without questioning
every bite that goes into my body. I have learned to listen to
my body and eat when I am hungry.
It has helped me identify the issues I have around eating and
competition. I have learned a lot. The competitive running
community can be a difficult place to be. I felt that I needed
to be excessively thin and lean to compete. I learned that if
you are depriving yourself to get there, it will catch up with
you and there are long-term consequences. A person can only run
so long on inadequate calorie intake and low body fat.
Eventually your body will break down.
Long term wellness coaching has helped me to keep focused on
staying healthy. It reminds me that proper nutrition will help
me meet my long term goals. By sticking with wellness coaching,
I have continued to move forward and I no longer fear falling
into my old ways. Wellness coaching has provided another level
of support in my training."
Miriam Jaffee, 25-year old runner
Evaluating your success
Working with a personal wellness coach can provide you with a
more objective assessment of your ongoing success. They can
assist you in obtaining objective measurements like body fat
testing, blood work analysis, fitness assessments, and other
measures of health and performance that can show concrete
improvements in your progress. Many people tend to be impatient
and become discouraged when success doesn't occur as quickly as
they would like. Having a coach to assist you in evaluating
your progress is a good way to help you stay on track,
especially when you're working on long-term goals.
If you'd like to find out how personal wellness coaching may
benefit you, feel free to give me a call. I'd love to help you
develop a nutrition and/or training program that will assist
you in your journey towards your health and fitness goals!
Heather Nakamura, MPE, MS, RD is a registered dietitian with
Masters degrees in both Nutrition and Exercise Physiology. She
develops nutrition and training programs for active
individuals. (206) 595-2688.